How To Talk About Sexual Health Without Killing the Mood

Skip the Awkward

Pre-written scripts to help you navigate sexual health conversations. These scripts are meant to be copied and pasted into whatever messaging platform you use to communicate with your partner(s).

Category 1: Pre-Date

Can't wait for tonight! Just a heads up, my biggest green flag is being proactive about health ✅. I use the Stellatris platform (https://stellatris.com) to share my test results to keep things totally stress-free. My display name on there is [INSERT STELLATRIS DISPLAY NAME]. If you don't have an account, it's free to join! Let's link our constellations so we can focus entirely on the fun stuff later. ✨

I am so looking forward to seeing you. Before we get too distracted later, let's get the boring adulting out of the way! I use the Stellatris platform (https://stellatris.com) to share my health receipts—my display name is [INSERT STELLATRIS DISPLAY NAME]. It's totally free to join. Let's get connected so we don't have to think about it at all tonight.

Hey! I'm really looking forward to our date. I practice ethical non-monogamy and believe in radical transparency, so I use the Stellatris platform (https://stellatris.com) to share my health stats and keep my network safe. My display name is [INSERT STELLATRIS DISPLAY NAME]. It's free to join if you want to link our constellations!

I'm so excited for us to meet up! I can sometimes get a little in my head about health stuff, so I use the Stellatris platform (https://stellatris.com) to keep everything completely transparent. It helps me totally relax and be in the moment. My display name is [INSERT STELLATRIS DISPLAY NAME] (it's free to sign up). Would love to link up!

Category 2: In-Person Pause

💡 Pro-Tip for In-Person Use: If you're using these while already in the moment, don't just text in silence! Say something out loud like, "Don't go anywhere, I want to keep doing exactly this. I'm just sending you something to your phone really quick so we can totally relax," before hitting send.

Okay, quick smooch-break! 🛑 I really want to keep going, but I’m a huge fan of worry-free fun. I use the Stellatris platform (https://stellatris.com) to make sharing health stuff super easy. My display name is [INSERT STELLATRIS DISPLAY NAME] (it's free to join). Let's do a quick constellation link—it takes two seconds—and then we can get right back to exactly what we were doing.

I am having the best time with you. Before we take this to the next level, I always like to share my VIP health pass. 🎟️ I use Stellatris (https://stellatris.com) so we don't have to have a whole awkward talk about it. My display name is [INSERT STELLATRIS DISPLAY NAME]. It's free to join, so let's link up really quick so we can officially take the brakes off.

I am definitely feeling this. Before we get totally carried away, let's do a quick health check so we can completely let go. I use the Stellatris platform (https://stellatris.com) to share my status—my display name is [INSERT STELLATRIS DISPLAY NAME]. Takes just a second to make a free account and link up!

Category 3: After Intimacy / Catch-Up

Last night was so much fun. 😉 I realized I completely forgot to do my usual health check beforehand because I got so distracted by you! I use the Stellatris platform (https://stellatris.com) to share my health status and keep my network safe. My display name is [INSERT STELLATRIS DISPLAY NAME]. If you don't have an account, it's free to join! Would love to get our constellations linked.

Had the best time with you! 😈 Since I’m definitely hoping we do that again, I want to send you my Stellatris info. It’s a platform (https://stellatris.com) I use to share test results and keep my health transparent. My display name is [INSERT STELLATRIS DISPLAY NAME] and it's completely free to join. Let’s link up our constellations so we are good to go for round two!

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Category 1: Pre-Date / App Match

I’m already counting down the hours until tonight. 😈 Just so we can get straight to the fun part without any pauses, my display name on Stellatris is [INSERT STELLATRIS DISPLAY NAME]. It’s a free platfrom (https://stellatris.com) I use to keep my health receipts transparent. Lock your constellation in with mine real quick so we can officially take the brakes off the second you walk through the door.

I'm looking forward to getting you alone later. ⏳ To make sure there are absolutely zero interruptions once we start, let's link our Stellatris constellations now (https://stellatris.com). My display name is [INSERT STELLATRIS DISPLAY NAME] (it's a free platform). Let's get this handled so we can focus on everything else.

Category 2: In-Person Pause

💡 Pro-Tip for Spicy In-Person Use: Keep the intense eye contact! Say out loud: "I definitely want to keep going, but let's clear the runway first. Let me send you something, real quick..." before hitting send.

Here is my Stellatris name: [INSERT STELLATRIS DISPLAY NAME]. It’s a free health-sharing platform (https://stellatris.com). Link your constellation to mine real quick—let’s make sure we're totally cleared for takeoff so we can get back to exactly what we were doing to each other.

Here's my Stellatris display name: [INSERT STELLATRIS DISPLAY NAME]. It takes one minute to make a free account and link up (https://stellatris.com), and then you have my full undivided attention. 😈

Category 3: After Sex / Catch-Up

Last night was absolutely wild. 🔥 Since I’m already craving a repeat performance, let’s get our health stats synced up so we’re locked and loaded for round two. My display name on Stellatris (https://stellatris.com) is [INSERT STELLATRIS DISPLAY NAME] (it’s totally free). Link your constellation to mine so we are ready to go next time.

I'm still thinking about what we just did. 🥵 Before we inevitably end up doing it again, let's get our health stats synced on the Stellatris platform (https://stellatris.com). It's free to join, my display name is [INSERT STELLATRIS DISPLAY NAME]. Link up with me so there's nothing slowing us down next time.